A lot of men are under the impression that a divorcee in her forties is so hungry for sex that they're doing her a huge favour by providing it, at very little inconvenience or cost to themselves. Perhaps some of your one-night stands have passed the word around that you are readily available. So the first thing you must do is get a different message across. Like you need to get to know and like someone before you're ready to make love. Like you are in favour of mutual respect, as well as mutual regard. Old fashioned notions, perhaps, but since what you want is old-fashioned marriage, those are the principles on which it should be based. You stand to risk frightening some men off but since you've no hope of a future with them it doesn't matter if you never see them again.
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